Saturday, October 21, 2006
I wonder does platonic friendship exist?I have a guy friend whom I talk to about everything under the sun. From my life to the intimate. He is there when I need him the most. When I need help he will appear to save me. Nice guy right? He's not baby but another guy in my life. Not my exbf either.
I know him since I am 18-19. It has been 3 years if I am not wrong. We sort of lost contact cause he had a gf he love alot. One fine day he called me crying. I was damn shock cause he is a player in my eyes. A player that nv say die. lol. Nv expect him to cry or get upsad over a girl. That's when we regain the contact.
We chat with each other often but we nv have that attraction. Maybe I know too much about him. He is a smart guy and with bright future, not bad looking and a sweet talker. This is how I look upon on him.
Usual people will say "wah lao he so nice to you must be he like you la." I realise how nice of him when things happen. I was dead drunk that very fateful night he was there throughout the whole night taking care of me. When that thing happen he hear me cry out. Sobbing over the phone and even offer to company to the doctor bla bla bla. Nice chap right? If a guy was to do that for you I am sure you will fall in love with him. BUT I didn't strange thing was he nv fall for me either. SInce I am such a nice girl. (LOL real loud)
He once told me that I am a nice girl friend as in friend he dun want to ruin the relationship. Which I felt the same way abt him. As I mentioned he is a player. He flirt around and always bring different girls home. Yet he didn't have that kind of tot on me. Sometimes talking to him make me feel I am losing my seductivity.
Though he is a nice friend but he also make me lose faith in guys from the way he do things. When I say I am locking myself in a cell to prevent myself from getting hurt he got worry and told me to see a counsellor cause this is not right. LOL. Than I told him "ehhh is you who made me feel this way de leh."
He was also the one that made me realise how stupid I was to do things for someone who dun love me and should have treasure the one that love me. He is also the one that brain wash me through the whole phase. Lucky I have him in my life.
When I was out drink he is also the one that tell me not to drink too much and if I am drunk pls give him a call. Where got guys so nice de. So hard to believe a guy can treat me so nice when he is just a friend.
All I want to say is
Dal, Thanks for being there when I am in need of some support as a friend. I hope our platonic friendship will remain as it is now. I will remember the help you gave me and if you need a listening ear I will always be there even if I have a bf. Though you always say if I have a bf you wun contact me that often cause the guy wun be happy. Thanks for being totful I am really glad I made a guy friend like you.
One last thing Please use protection when You are fooling around. Mai get AIDS liao come crying than say want to bite me so that I can company. I am not cursing you but a gentle reminder. I hope you will find what you are finding one day.
Friends forvever and I am not a player girl like you la. I maybe loud and open BUT I am not a player. I am just a girl who are more open to things between girls and guys. On top of that I dun go around breaking people's heart leh. Super nice to bf execpt for one la.









